On friendship…

“A man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her.” ~ Oscar Wilde

I am beginning to see the truth in the quote above. It kills me to do it but I finally stopped deluding myself and ended a friendship that means a lot to me. I had to be selfish and end it while we were still on good terms. After numerous attempts at trying to woo her heart I finally came to understood that no matter what I do, it will never be. It was naive of me to think otherwise. Perhaps things wouldn’t be so complicated if we weren’t such close friends. My feelings toward her will always linger if we remain friends. The best thing for me to do is to just get out of her life and give myself a chance get over it. Maybe one day I will meet another girl that make my heart jump. Until then I hope to find enough things to do to occupy my time so I don’t have to regret making such a rash emotional decision.

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